{"id":5962,"date":"2019-11-17T20:44:41","date_gmt":"2019-11-17T18:44:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mahila.lt.kirtiklis.serveriai.lt\/?p=5962"},"modified":"2019-11-17T20:48:35","modified_gmt":"2019-11-17T18:48:35","slug":"atsikabinkit-nuo-vieniso-zmogaus","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mahila.lt\/index.php\/2019\/11\/17\/atsikabinkit-nuo-vieniso-zmogaus\/","title":{"rendered":"Atsikabinkit nuo vieni\u0161o \u017emogaus"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tokia jau \u017emogaus paskirtis \u2013 susirasti sau antr\u0105 pus\u0119, su ja susilaukt vaik\u0173 (tai ta antra pus\u0117 privalo b\u016bt prie\u0161ingos lyties, kad \u0161itas paeit\u0173), dirbt visuomen\u0117s gerovei nu ir ka\u017ekada ramiai numirt.<\/p>\n

O vat ir ne. Neb\u016btinai.<\/p>\n

Galim\u0173 ir laiming\u0173 scenarij\u0173 yra \u012fvairi\u0173 \u2013 ir toki\u0173, kaip \u0161itas, apra\u0161ytas auk\u0161\u010diau, bet ir dar \u0161imtai kit\u0173. Jei ka\u017ekuris konkretus vaizdinys, kaip turi d\u0117liotis \u017emogaus gyvenimas, jums atrodo teisingiausias, tai dar nerei\u0161kia, kad tik taip ir yra. Nors, jei taip tiksliau, tvirtinimas kaip yra geriausia, pats i\u0161 sav\u0119s jau yra nelabai \u012fmanomas.<\/p>\n

Prasm\u0117 yra tokia prasm\u0117, koki\u0105 tu pats sau susikuri. Ir viskas.<\/p>\n

Visai neseniai dalyvavau tokioj socialin\u0117j situacijoj, kuomet vienas vyrukas buvo atkakliai kamantin\u0117jamas \u201eTai-kaip-ten-su-ta-antra-puse\u201c, o v\u0117liau, i\u0161girdus, kad antros pus\u0117s n\u0117ra, guod\u017eiamas ir instruktuojamas, kaip t\u0105 antr\u0105 pus\u0119 susirast. Nes antros pus\u0117s netur\u0117jimas automati\u0161kai yra li\u016bdesys, nelaim\u0117 ir tamsa. Be antros pus\u0117s tu nesi visavertis \u017emogus, nes \u017emogaus paskirtis yra susirasti sau antr\u0105 pus\u0119 ir veistis, kaip jau ra\u0161iau prie\u0161 tai.<\/p>\n

\u0160i\u0105 akimirk\u0105 pasaulyje yra vat tiek \u017emoni\u0173 –<\/p>\n

7,744,591,491<\/em><\/p>\n

Po keli\u0173 minu\u010di\u0173 j\u0173 bus dar daugiau, sunkiai jau visi \u010dia ir betelpam, bet k\u0105 ten tas pasaulis \u2013 vat Lietuvoj tai per ma\u017eai.<\/p>\n

Jei esi vienas, tai ne tik, kad pats nelaimingas, bet tikriausiai su tavim dar ir ka\u017ekas nelabai gerai. Nu ir \u012ftartinas variantas. \u0160itoks vyras, \u0161itokia moteris, jau tiek met\u0173, o vat vienas. Nes nu kaip \u010dia taip nieko nesusirandi.<\/p>\n

Visi karts nuo karto atsiduriam tokioj situacijoj \u2013 kartais u\u017e vieni\u0161um\u0105 dro\u017eia mus, kartais b\u016bnam to liudininkais, o kartais ir patys sugebam padro\u017et pasakymais \u201eTau reikia vyro\/moters\u201c, net nesusim\u0105stydami, ar \u010dia viskas gerai su tokiais nepra\u0161ytais komentarais.<\/p>\n

\u201eTai j\u016bs nieko nelaukiat, valgysit vienas?\u201c \u2013 tie, kas daug laiko praleid\u017eiat vieni, \u0161it\u0105 maldel\u0119 mokat mintinai.<\/p>\n

Apie kai kuri\u0173 garsi\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 vieni\u0161um\u0105 tirados prira\u0161ytos ir prikalb\u0117tos. TV laidose ai\u0161kinamasi, kaip \u010dia taip gavosi, kad vienas. \u201eAaa, tai jums viskas vienam gerai? Tai gerai tada.\u201c Na ir vis tiek, da\u017enas komentaras \u2013 \u201eBet jam\/jai turb\u016bt ka\u017ekas negerai\u201c.<\/p>\n

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Man, pavyzd\u017eiui, irgi labai ilgai buvo nesuprantama, kod\u0117l vyrai ar moterys, lik\u0119 vieni, v\u0117liau taip ir nesusiranda antros pus\u0117s. Arba nesuprantama, kod\u0117l kai kurie pasirenka vieni b\u016bti vis\u0105 gyvenim\u0105.<\/p>\n

Na bet lygiai taip pat man ilgai b\u016bdavo sunku suprasti kit\u0173 pasirinkimus tokius, koki\u0173 pati nedary\u010diau.<\/p>\n

Bet \u0161tai vat, greta dar daugyb\u0117s kit\u0173 aplankiusi\u0173 supratim\u0173, gyveni, matai pasaul\u012f, pa\u017e\u012fsti \u017emones, vis daugiau \u017emoni\u0173, vis labiau skirting\u0173, vis giliau nueini pokalbiuose, pats nudegi, kitus nudegusius matai nu ir supranti, kad n\u0117ra vieno kelio visiems vienodai parodyto ir bandyt \u012fgr\u016bst \u017emones \u012f savo paties idil\u0117s \u012fsivaizdavim\u0105 yra ma\u017e\u0173 ma\u017eiausiai kvaila. L\u012fst \u012f j\u0173 asmenin\u0119 erdv\u0119 ir \u0161erti juos nuomone, kurios niekas nepra\u0161\u0117 \u2013 juo labiau.<\/p>\n

A\u0161 pakankamai da\u017enai gird\u017eiu nepra\u0161yt\u0105 labai \u012fkyriai man gr\u016bdam\u0105 nuomon\u0119 apie tai, kaip man reikia gyventi, kad labai gerai supras\u010diau, kokia toji nuomon\u0117 yra man nereikalinga ir, kad ir kaip nor\u0117\u010diau nuo jos visi\u0161kai atsiriboti, \u017eeid\u017eia.<\/p>\n

D\u0117l to sakau, atsikabinkit nuo vieni\u0161o \u017emogaus.<\/p>\n

Vienatv\u0117 gali b\u016bti skausminga, ta\u010diau vienatv\u0117 gali b\u016bti ir laiminga. Kaip ir buvimas poroje \u2013 jis irgi gali b\u016bti skausmingas, jis gali b\u016bti laimingas. Kaip pavyks \u2013 niekad negali b\u016bti tikras.<\/p>\n

Faina, kai laiminga \u0161eima ka\u017ekam ir yra laim\u0117, ta\u010diau laiminga vienatv\u0117 ka\u017ekam irgi gali b\u016bti did\u017eiausia laim\u0117. Jau nekalbant apie tai, kad ji \u2013 tikriausiai kur kas geriau negu nelaiminga \u0161eima.<\/p>\n

\u017dinau \u0161itiek atvej\u0173, kuomet \u017emon\u0117s, \u012fsivaizduodami, kad pasaulis taip ir turi d\u0117liotis \u2013 mokykla-universitetas-darbas-santuoka-vaikai=laim\u0117, labai anksti, i\u0161 \u0161irdies ir neapsidairydami puol\u0117 vykdyt \u0161ito projekto. Kai kas, sakykim, laimingai. \u0160itie da\u017eniausiai bus patys pirmi tvirtinti, kad jus i\u0161gelb\u0117s antra pus\u0117, o jau paskui \u2013 vaikai. O vat kai kas, kas jau\u010diasi pafeilin\u0119 (ir kartais d\u0117l to nusteb\u0119 \u2013 \u010dia, pasirodo, dar ir stengtis reik!) su \u0161ituo nepriekai\u0161tingai sukaltu projektu, jau kur kas atsargiau rinksis \u017eod\u017eius ir j\u016bs\u0173 \u012f r\u0117mus gr\u016bst tikriausiai nebandys.<\/p>\n

\u017dinau ir toki\u0173, kas, bevykdydami auk\u0161\u010diau apra\u0161yt\u0105 projekt\u0105, kankinasi ir dabar jau tikriausiai elgt\u0173si kitaip, tik jau \u201eUndo\u201c nepaspausi, reik tvarkytis su padariniais.<\/p>\n

Ir \u0161iaip, ne tik nuo vieni\u0161o \u017emogaus atsikabinkit, atsikabinkit nuo \u017emogaus, kuris j\u016bs\u0173 nuomon\u0117s apie tai, kaip jam gyvent, nepageidavo. Jei u\u017esimanys, tikrai papra\u0161ys.<\/p>\n

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