{"id":3654,"date":"2017-09-07T22:15:42","date_gmt":"2017-09-08T00:15:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mahila.lt.kirtiklis.serveriai.lt\/?p=3654"},"modified":"2019-03-06T22:33:36","modified_gmt":"2019-03-06T20:33:36","slug":"apie-arogancija-ir-jos-menka-zavesi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mahila.lt\/index.php\/2017\/09\/07\/apie-arogancija-ir-jos-menka-zavesi\/","title":{"rendered":"Apie arogancij\u0105 ir jos menk\u0105 \u017eaves\u012f realyb\u0117je"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kartais ra\u0161au tada, kai mane ka\u017ekas supykdo. B\u016btent tokiomis akimirkomis galvoje pradeda suktis begalyb\u0117 sakini\u0173 ir pastraip\u0173, kuriuos i\u0161\u0161aukia vienokios ar kitokios situacijos. U\u017euot \u0161irdusi ar nir\u0161usi sau viena, u\u017esira\u0161au tas mintis, tada skaitau kelissyk, kol galiausiai i\u0161sigrynina vie\u0161inimui sud\u0117liotas tekstas.<\/p>\n

Turb\u016bt nenustebinsiu pasakydama, kad esu siaubingai jautrus \u017emogus. It\u2019s both a blessing and a curse to feel everything so very deeply.<\/em> Ir d\u017eiugius dalykus, ir skaudulius i\u0161gyvenu taip smarkiai, kad kartais pali\u016bd\u017eiu sau, jog gal atbukusiems gyvent lengviau. Bet v\u0117lgi, tikriausiai, jei neb\u016bt\u0173 t\u0173 nuo dangaus iki prarajos gili\u0173 jausm\u0173, ir ra\u0161yti tiek ir taip apie visk\u0105 noro neb\u016bt\u0173. O ra\u0161yti man labai, labai patinka.<\/p>\n

\u0160iandien noriu pakalb\u0117ti apie arogancij\u0105. \u017dinot, man ka\u017ekaip labai pasisek\u0117 ir su \u0161io keisto rei\u0161kinio protr\u016bkiais susidurti ligi \u0161iol teko visai seniai. Matyt kaltas (t.y. tur\u0117\u010diau b\u016bti jam d\u0117kinga)<\/em> socialinis burbulas, kuriame t\u016bnau did\u017ei\u0105j\u0105 laiko dal\u012f. Bet kelios situacijos, kuriose atsid\u016briau neseniai, privert\u0117 prisiminti, kaip atrodo ir kuo dvokia toji arogancija bei kok\u012f kokt\u0173 ir pakankamai ilgai nusit\u0119siant\u012f p\u0117dsak\u0105 ji palieka.<\/p>\n

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Anot lietuvi\u0173 kalbos \u017eodyno, arogancija \u2013 tai kit\u0173 niekinimas, nemandagumas, pasip\u016btimas, i\u0161didumas, at\u017earumas, akipl\u0117\u0161i\u0161kumas.<\/p>\n

Kartais toji arogancija i\u0161 \u017emoni\u0173 liejasi akivaizd\u017eiais fontanais, kartais ji tylut tylut\u0117l\u0117, ta\u010diau tarsi peiliais atmosfer\u0105 kapojanti, kartais jos n\u0117 nepastebite, nes ji i\u0161siver\u017eia jums u\u017e aki\u0173.<\/p>\n

Aroganti\u0161ki \u017emon\u0117s ant j\u016bs\u0173 r\u0117kia darbe, socialin\u0117se situacijose, ten, kur n\u0117 neketinote pasijusti prastai, bet j\u0173 d\u0117ka pasijutote. Jie j\u016bs\u0173 negerbia, braunasi prie\u0161 jus eil\u0117je, murma ir trukdo jums kalbant, ai\u0161kina, k\u0105 ir kaip tur\u0117tum\u0117te daryti, kartais netgi puola, kai jiems ne\u012ftinkate. Aroganti\u0161ki \u017emon\u0117s jus pa\u0161iepia taip, kad jums nuo\u0161ird\u017eiai skauda ir gelia, taip \u0161ai\u017eiai ir dygiai, kad tesinori sta\u010diai \u012f \u017eem\u0119 prasmegti. Jie patys nieko doro nedarydami menkina j\u016bs\u0173 pastangas ir darb\u0105, nevertina j\u016bs\u0173 laiko. Jie elgiasi nemandagiai. Arba, dar geriau \u2013 kai jiems ka\u017eko reikia, jie \u0161ilkiniai, o v\u0117liau, gav\u0119, ko nor\u0117jo, jie ir v\u0117l pa\u0161iau\u0161ia spyglius. Aroganti\u0161ki \u017emon\u0117s negerbia j\u016bs\u0173 socialin\u0117s pad\u0117ties, geb\u0117jim\u0173, i\u0161vaizdos, lytin\u0117s orientacijos, sprendim\u0173, nor\u0173 ir \u017eod\u017ei\u0173.<\/p>\n

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Aroganti\u0161ki \u017emon\u0117s \u2013 tai tie mokyklos bulliai (\u0161itam \u017eod\u017eiui gero lietuvi\u0161ko termino nerandu, galb\u016bt ar\u010diausiai b\u016bt\u0173 \u201cu\u017egauliotojai\u201d), persik\u0117l\u0119 \u012f real\u0173 gyvenim\u0105. Arba kaip tik, buv\u0119 u\u017egautieji, pasteb\u0117j\u0119, kad, pasibaigus mokyklos kan\u010dioms nieks j\u0173 nebeengia, tad at\u0117jo metas patiems pajusti, k\u0105 rei\u0161kia skriausti.<\/p>\n

Tai \u2013 \u017emon\u0117s, kurie d\u0117l ka\u017ekoki\u0173 prie\u017eas\u010di\u0173 \u012fsivaizduoja esantys prana\u0161esni u\u017e kitus, tai \u2013 kiemo herojai, kurie nemandagiai bendrauja su aptarnaujan\u010diu personalu, ta\u010diau kartais ir tie patys klientus aptarnaujantys \u017emon\u0117s, kurie kartais priver\u010dia pasijusti taip, tarsi jiems trukdytum\u0117te. Arogancija \u2013 tai monstriukas, kuris \u012fsik\u016bnyti gali \u012f kiekvien\u0105 \u2013 pareig\u016bn\u0105, d\u0117stytoj\u0105, ofiso klerk\u0105, \u012fmon\u0117s vadov\u0105, daininink\u0105, barmen\u0105, aktori\u0173, \u017eurnalist\u0105, architekt\u0105, name it. Baisiai daug \u0161ito tarp naktini\u0173 klub\u0173 lankytoj\u0173. Sako, kuo daugiau kokaino, tuo labiau i\u0161sip\u016bt\u0119s ego. \u010cia <\/a>Vice paai\u0161kina, kod\u0117l. Nuo arogancijos neapsaugotas n\u0117 vienas, nes su\u017evaig\u017ed\u0117ti \u012fmanoma kiekvienoje srityje ar situacijoje, jei tik apsileidi ir nebejauti, kad ragai u\u017eaugo ir remia dang\u0173. Lygiai taip pat n\u0117 vienas n\u0117ra apsaugotas nuo susid\u016brimo su a\u0161triadan\u010diais arogantais. Stipr\u016bs \u017emon\u0117s geba juos ignoruoti, o silpnesniems u\u017etat skauda.<\/p>\n

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Tikiu, jog jums atrodo, kad \u010dia jau tikrai jokiu b\u016bdu ne apie jus. Vis d\u0117lto, pateiksiu kelet\u0105 pavyzd\u017ei\u0173, kuomet, gal to n\u0117 nesuprasdami, elgiat\u0117s aroganti\u0161kai. Kai koks nors vaikinas ar mergina mandagiai i\u0161rei\u0161kia jums romantin\u012f d\u0117mes\u012f, ta\u010diau j\u016bs \u012f j\u012f tiesioginiais arba ne visai \u017eod\u017eiais atsakote \u201cA\u0161 \u2013 ne tavo nosiai\u201d, elgiat\u0117s aroganti\u0161kai. (Netgi gali b\u016bti, kad visiems laikams ir neatitaisomai to n\u0117 nenumanydami sugniu\u017edote j\u0173 pasitik\u0117jim\u0105 savimi). Kai bendraujate su \u017emon\u0117mis, kuri\u0173 finansin\u0117s galimyb\u0117s yra \u017eemesn\u0117s u\u017e j\u016bsi\u0161kes ir akivaizd\u017eiai tuo puikuojat\u0117s, elgiat\u0117s aroganti\u0161kai. \u010cia <\/a>\u2013 neblogas straipsnis su dar daugiau pavyzd\u017ei\u0173 apie tai, kaip atrodo taip vadinama \u201cfoolish arrogance\u201d ir kokie gali b\u016bti jos padariniai.<\/p>\n

Kartais gird\u017eiu, \u201eJis \u2013 \u017evaig\u017ed\u0117, tai suprantama”; \u201eJis \u2013 auk\u0161to lygio vadovas, tai suprantama\u201d; \u201eJis neturi laiko, tai suprantama\u201d. Nu ne<\/em>, nesuprantama. (\u010cia <\/a>– visai \u012fdomus straipsnis apie aroganti\u0161kus \u012fvairi\u0173 sri\u010di\u0173 darbuotojus.) Arogancija ir visi kiti \u012f jos apibr\u0117\u017eim\u0105 \u012feinantys \u017eod\u017eiai nepuo\u0161ia, n\u0117ra ir, tikiuosi, niekada nebus priimtina pozicija visuomen\u0117je, kurioje gyvename ir kurios nuolatinio tobul\u0117jimo trok\u0161tame.<\/p>\n

Kai buvau jaunesn\u0117, steb\u0117davau tuos pasip\u016btusius \u017emones ir netgi galvodavau, kad pretenzingas elgesys yra ka\u017ekokia siekiamyb\u0117, kurios nesuprantu. Ir, kai b\u016bdavau u\u017egauta toki\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173, manydavau, kad turb\u016bt i\u0161ties ka\u017ek\u0105 darau ne taip, atrodau ne taip, neturiu tiek pinig\u0173, kad gal\u0117\u010diau visaverti\u0161kai jaustis, galvodavau, kad tie a\u0161tr\u016bs lie\u017euviai mano link nukreipti b\u016bdavo ne be prie\u017easties ir kaip reikiant grau\u017edavau save i\u0161 vidaus.<\/p>\n

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Ta\u010diau, kuo daugiau \u017emoni\u0173 pa\u017e\u012fstu ir \u012fvairi\u0173 situacij\u0173 atsiduriu, tuo geriau ir ai\u0161kiau suprantu, kad tai tiems kandiesiems arogantams ka\u017ekas ne visai gerai. Da\u017eniausiai toks j\u0173 elgesys \u2013 atvirai i\u0161reik\u0161ta vidin\u0117 kan\u010dia, pripa\u017einimo tr\u016bkumas, pasimetimas ir bla\u0161kymasis, nuo kurio b\u0117gama i\u0161siliejant ant kit\u0173. Prisiminkite tai, kit\u0105 kart\u0105 pajusite g\u0117luon\u012f. Ka\u017ekada ra\u0161iau, \u201cb\u016bk tikras, b\u016bk \u0161viesus ir ramus, b\u016bk gra\u017eus paprastumu ir nepretenzingumu. Ne arogancija, ne pompastika ir ne riksmais.\u201d Nors \u0161is kelias ir ne pats lengviausias, jis kur kas tvaresnis u\u017e vienadienius blizgu\u010dius.<\/p>\n

Tik nemai\u0161ykite. Galima labai pasitik\u0117ti savimi, galima ir net reikia did\u017eiuotis savo pasiekimais, galima tur\u0117ti a\u0161tr\u0173 humoro jausm\u0105 bei s\u0105moj\u012f, galima draugi\u0161kai pa\u0161iepti, galima b\u016bti blogos nuotaikos, galima pykti, galima nenor\u0117ti ka\u017eko daryti, \u017einoti savo vert\u0119 ir nesutikti su si\u016blomomis nepalankiomis s\u0105lygomis. Tik nereik\u0117t\u0173 viso to i\u0161reik\u0161ti pasip\u016btimu, at\u017earumu ir nemandagumu, jei norite ir siekiate b\u016bti oriu ir gera\u0161ird\u017eiu \u017emogumi. Jei ne \u2013 na, tai tuomet viskas galima, kiekvienas renkasi savo keli\u0105.<\/p>\n

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„…saugoti save nuo kasdienyb\u0117s pavoj\u0173, susid\u0117ti saugiklius – saugoti save – gal net nuo s\u0117km\u0117s, pasisekimo, pripa\u017einimo… steb\u0117ti – ar dar neprad\u0117jai patikti sau pa\u010diam…\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

Yra toks anekdotinis patarimas-persp\u0117jimas – einant \u012f vakar\u0117l\u012f: „jeigu baliuje ka\u017ekuriuo metu pajusite, kad esate protingas, grak\u0161tus, ypatingas ir seksualus – tuojau pat eikite namo – nes tai rei\u0161kia, kad esate visi\u0161kai girtas”… gyvenime pana\u0161iai – kai ai\u0161kiai supratote, kad jums sekasi, kad esate daug pasiek\u0119s, kad turite, k\u0105 reikia tur\u0117ti, kad viskas labai gerai – gali b\u016bti, kad esate girtas nuo kasdienyb\u0117s… eikite namo – \u012f savo sielos namus…”<\/em><\/p>\n

L. Deg\u0117sys<\/p>\n

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Jei tau patinka tai, kaip ra\u0161au, pad\u0117k\u0105 gali i\u0161reik\u0161ti tapdamas mano patronu \u0161tai \u010dia<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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