{"id":3401,"date":"2017-03-26T13:20:00","date_gmt":"2017-03-26T15:20:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mahila.lt.kirtiklis.serveriai.lt\/?p=3401"},"modified":"2019-02-06T20:49:46","modified_gmt":"2019-02-06T18:49:46","slug":"pavydas-jus-visus-suvalgys-o-lyginimasis-su-kitais-sues-is-vidaus","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mahila.lt\/index.php\/2017\/03\/26\/pavydas-jus-visus-suvalgys-o-lyginimasis-su-kitais-sues-is-vidaus\/","title":{"rendered":"Pavydas jus visus suvalgys, o lyginimasis su kitais \u2013 su\u0117s i\u0161 vidaus"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-3408\" src=\"http:\/\/mahila.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/46872_10201750035939500_1987926091_n-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"478\" height=\"358\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mahila.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/46872_10201750035939500_1987926091_n-2.jpg 500w, https:\/\/mahila.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/46872_10201750035939500_1987926091_n-2-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 478px) 100vw, 478px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Blemba, kokia a\u0161 stora. Storesn\u0117 u\u017e pus\u0119 bendradarbi\u0173. Bet ne tokia stora, kaip buvus grupiok\u0117, kuri ka\u017ekaip ketvirtam kurse kaip sustor\u0117jo, taip ir nebeatstor\u0117ja, <em>tai dar viskas gerai<\/em>.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;\u017diauriai neturiu pinig\u0173. Neturiu nei buto, nei ma\u0161inos, nei pinig\u0173 drabu\u017eiams, niekam neturiu. <em>O visi kiti turi.<\/em> Visi kiti kaip i\u0161prot\u0117j\u0119 perka loftus, naujus automobilius, <em>fancy<\/em> treningus ir kas antr\u0105 m\u0117nes\u012f keliauja tai \u012f Tailand\u0105, tai \u012f Rom\u0105. O a\u0161 va\u017eiuoju \u012f darb\u0105 ir i\u0161 jo truliku, galvodama, sustot prie Lidl u\u017esipirkt pigesni\u0173 preki\u0173 savaitei, ar kaip nors i\u0161siversiu. <em>Bet i\u0161 tikro tai.<\/em> U\u017edirbu daugiau nei visos tos draug\u0117s, kurios dirba parduotuv\u0117se ar skambu\u010di\u0173 centruose ir vaik\u0161to apsirengusios tais pa\u010diais drabu\u017eiais kaip ir 2010-aisiais. <em>Tai dar viskas gerai<\/em>.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Gyvenu ka\u017ekur \u0160e\u0161kin\u0117j. O va, \u017emon\u0117s gyvena Centre, Senamiesty, \u017dv\u0117ryne. Betgi yra, kas gyvena Naujojoj Vilnioj kokioj, <em>tai dar viskas gerai<\/em>.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Taip ir gyvenam, met\u0173 metus lygindami save su kitais. <\/strong>Sunku gyvent, kai apstu toki\u0173, kurie gra\u017eiau ir <em>labiau centre<\/em> gyvena, toki\u0173, kurie net b\u016bdami u\u017e mus vyresni geriau atrodo, toki\u0173, kurie net b\u016bdami u\u017e mus jaunesni daugiau u\u017edirba, o svarbiausia \u2013 toki\u0173, kuri\u0173 instagram\u0105 pascrollinus ir palyginus su savo gyvenimu noris apsiverkt kampe. Ai\u0161ku, b\u016bt\u012f <em>palengvina<\/em> \u017einojimas, kad apstu ir nelaim\u0117li\u0173, kuriems sekas pras\u010diau, kurie atrodo blogiau nei mes, kurie ma\u017eiau u\u017edirba, gali ma\u017eiau sau leist\u00a0 ar akivaizd\u017eiai (<em>nes mums taip atrodo<\/em>) yra menkesni\u0173 intelektini\u0173 sugeb\u0117jim\u0173 nei mes. \u012e juos pa\u017ei\u016br\u0117jus i\u0161kart pasidaro <em>geriau<\/em> ir nebe toks varganas atrodo tas m\u016bs\u0173 gyvenimas. Iki kito kritimo \u012f ka\u017ekieno svajoni\u0173 gyvenim\u0105 instagramo puslapyje.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Geresnis vaikinas, geresn\u0117 mergina, geresn\u0117 ma\u0161ina, geresnis darbas, geresn\u0117 alga, geresni batai, geresni namai, geresnis i\u0161silavinimas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-3403\" src=\"http:\/\/mahila.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/tumblr_okniiaEk8i1tjeq1so1_1280.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"447\" height=\"447\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mahila.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/tumblr_okniiaEk8i1tjeq1so1_1280.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/mahila.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/tumblr_okniiaEk8i1tjeq1so1_1280-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/mahila.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/tumblr_okniiaEk8i1tjeq1so1_1280-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mahila.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/tumblr_okniiaEk8i1tjeq1so1_1280-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mahila.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/tumblr_okniiaEk8i1tjeq1so1_1280-1024x1024.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 447px) 100vw, 447px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>(Jei ma\u0161inos gerum\u0105 daugma\u017e dar galima pamatuoti jos pagaminimo metais, galingumu ar kitais parametrais, kaip galima pasakyti, kas yra geresnis vaikinas ar geresn\u0117 mergina? Dieva\u017ei, kas vienam geras, kitam bus nieko vertas, o jei bandot ka\u017ek\u0105 pritempti prie visuomen\u0117s standarto, tai vargas jums. Be to, i\u0161 viso, kas yra visuomen\u0117s standartas? \u201eNuo&#8230; iki\u201c herojai, tie, apie kuriuos ra\u0161o \u017eurnalas \u201e\u017dmon\u0117s\u201c? Kas t\u0105 standart\u0105 suk\u016br\u0117? Gana ai\u0161kiai \u017einau, koks yra mano standartas. Protas. O visa kita \u2013 jau po to. Koks j\u016bsi\u0161kis \u2013 spr\u0119st tik jums patiems.)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Visada, visada, kad ir kaip besistengtum\u0117t, kad ir kaip besipl\u0117\u0161ytum\u0117t, atsiras ka\u017ekas geresnis, gra\u017eesnis, jaunesnis ir protingesnis u\u017e jus.<\/strong> Kai nusipirksit kie\u010diausi\u0105 ma\u0161in\u0105 kieme, kaimyn\u0117 susinervins ir nusipirks dar kietesn\u0119.<\/p>\n<p>Dabar paklausykit.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lyginimasis su kitais yra vienas kvailesni\u0173 dalyk\u0173, kuriais galite u\u017esiimti asmeninio tobul\u0117jimo kelyje. <\/strong>Lyginimasis su tais, kurie atrodo laimingesni, da\u017eniausiai ne privers siekt tos laim\u0117s dar labiau, o sukels kart\u0117l\u012f ir privers bumb\u0117ti. Lyginimasis su didesniais nelaim\u0117liais privers tyliai sau viduj savim pasipuikuoti ir pasid\u017eiaugti, neva <em>ogi a\u0161 tai geriau varau.<\/em> Ir niekas i\u0161 esm\u0117s pernelyg nepasikeis. B\u0117da ta, kad tais lyginimaisis u\u017esiimam mes visi. A\u0161 irgi. Jei neb\u016b\u010diau patyrusi \u0161it\u0173 menk\u0173 jausm\u0173, neb\u016b\u010diau j\u0173 akivaizdoje prigavusi sav\u0119s kvailuos potyriuos ir negal\u0117\u010diau apie tai dabar ra\u0161yt.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lyginti save reik\u0117t\u0173 ir b\u016bt\u0173 geriausia tik su pa\u010diu savimi. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Jei norite tobul\u0117ti, pasinaudodami palyginimais, lyginkite save tok\u012f, koks esate \u0161iandien, su tuo, koks buvote ka\u017ekada anks\u010diau ir tokiu, koks norite b\u016bti. Tarkim, tavo vardas Paulius. Tai lygint tau save reik\u0117t\u0173 ne su Darium, Sandra, Luku, Ieva ar dar ka\u017ekuo kitu. Tau reik\u0117t\u0173 t\u0105 Pauli\u0173, kuris esi dabar, lyginti su tuo Paulium, kuris buvai prie\u0161 metus, trejus ar daugiau ir tuo, kok\u012f j\u012f nori matyt ateity.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-3404\" src=\"http:\/\/mahila.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/comparisonwillkillyou-dribbble.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"471\" height=\"353\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mahila.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/comparisonwillkillyou-dribbble.png 800w, https:\/\/mahila.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/comparisonwillkillyou-dribbble-300x225.png 300w, https:\/\/mahila.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/comparisonwillkillyou-dribbble-768x576.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 471px) 100vw, 471px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u012evairiose magijos ir psichologin\u0117se praktikose da\u017enas toks ritualas: <strong>sugalvok nor\u0105<\/strong>. Norus galvojam lipdami ant Katedros aik\u0161t\u0117j esan\u010dios \u201eStebuklo\u201c plytel\u0117s, bene kiekviename mieste, kur apsilankom, randam koki\u0105 statul\u0105, kuri\u0105 patrynus ar ap\u0117jus kelis kartus, i\u0161sipildys sugalvotas noras, nor\u0105 galvot reikia i\u0161kritus blakstienai sp\u0117jant, kurioj ji pus\u0117j, pama\u010dius lygin\u012f valand\u0173 skai\u010di\u0173, kartu su kitu \u017emogumi tuo pa\u010diu metu i\u0161tarus tuos pa\u010dius \u017eod\u017eius.<\/p>\n<p>Tokie burtai \u2013 ne toks jau ir nekaltas ar beprasmis dalykas. Nes jei papra\u0161om to, kas yra realiai \u012fgyvendinama, tai tiesiog savo pas\u0105mon\u0117s galiomis ir esam paj\u0117g\u016bs tai i\u0161 tikro u\u017esiprogramuot. \u00a0Kiek \u017einau, psichologai irgi rekomenduoja svajot pla\u010diai ir \u012f\u017e\u016bliai.<\/p>\n<p>\u017dinot, kai atsidurdavau situacijose, kuomet reik\u0117davo galvoti nor\u0105, a\u0161 labai nor\u0117davau meil\u0117s. Visada pra\u0161ydavau gero ir gra\u017eaus vaikino. Dabar net kiek nejauku apie tai taip garsiai prisipa\u017eint. Bet tikrai. Ka\u017ekaip atrodydavo, kad <em>tik tiek ir tereikia gi<\/em>. Tik ka\u017ekaip nesipildydavo tie norai nors tu k\u0105. <em>Nes gal d\u0117l to, kad nuo man\u0119s jie nelabai priklaus\u0117.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>O tada vien\u0105 kart\u0105 buvau gong\u0173 maudyn\u0117se (kurios i\u0161 esm\u0117s mane paveik\u0117 ka\u017ekaip keistai, net, saky\u010diau, labiau nepatiko negu patiko) ir ten liep\u0117 \u012fsivaizduoti ka\u017ek\u0105 labai gero. T\u0105syk \u0117miau ir \u012fsivaizdavau save. Labai gra\u017ei\u0105, laiming\u0105, besi\u0161ypsan\u010di\u0105 ir kiet\u0105. Tada susigalvojau pat\u012f puikiausia savo pa\u010dios vaizdin\u012f, kok\u012f toji mano vaizduot\u0117 tegal\u0117jo i\u0161ne\u0161t. Sunku ir pa\u010diai patik\u0117t, bet dabar, daugiau nei po met\u0173, matau save pana\u0161i\u0105 \u012f tai, k\u0105 tada \u012fsivaizdavau.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kai susikursit save, tai ir meil\u0117, ir karjera, ir visa kita ateis i\u0161 paskos.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-3409\" src=\"http:\/\/mahila.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/17352304_1300086766751628_2525509025023471090_n.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"512\" height=\"305\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mahila.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/17352304_1300086766751628_2525509025023471090_n.jpg 572w, https:\/\/mahila.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/17352304_1300086766751628_2525509025023471090_n-300x179.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 512px) 100vw, 512px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Be galo patogu matyti savo gyvenim\u0105 tarsi laiko juost\u0105 (neneikime, feisbukas t\u0105 juost\u0105 suvokt padeda visai neblogai). Jei neprisimenate, kaip viskas vyko ir atrod\u0117 prie\u0161 metus ar daugiau, u\u017etenka susirast nuotraukas i\u0161 t\u0173 laik\u0173 ir prisiminsit. Be \u012fvairi\u0173 informacijos apie save kaupimo kanal\u0173 internete, stabiliai u\u017esira\u0161in\u0117ju savo svor\u012f ir finansinius duomenis. Kiekvien\u0105 m\u0117nes\u012f u\u017edirbu skirtingai, nes esu freelancer\u0117, tod\u0117l toks steb\u0117jimas ir b\u016btinas, ir gaunasi savaime, nes viskas matosi vien pa\u017evelgus \u012f i\u0161ra\u0161ytas s\u0105skaitas. Kuomet lyginti savo ir draug\u0173 u\u017edarb\u012f \u2013 kvailokas ir beprasmis u\u017esi\u0117mimas, lyginti tai, kiek u\u017edirbai prie\u0161 metus ir kiek u\u017edirbi dabar \u2013 racionalu ir pravartu. <strong>Jei matote, kad pad\u0117tis, o varge, suprast\u0117jo, nepasikeit\u0117 arba pasikeit\u0117 ma\u017eiau nei nor\u0117tum\u0117te, kelkit sau klausimus, kod\u0117l taip yra. Ir svarbiausia, kelkit klausimus, kaip galima b\u016bt\u0173 tai pakeisti ir pajud\u0117ti i\u0161 s\u0105stingio ta\u0161ko, kuriame save randate.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>(Be savistabos laiko perspektyvoje, m\u0117gstu sudarin\u0117ti ilgus s\u0105ra\u0161us darb\u0173, kurie turi b\u016bti padaryti. Prie t\u0173 darb\u0173 nevengiu prira\u0161yti ir sau metam\u0173 i\u0161\u0161\u016bki\u0173, kurie tampa tarsi projekto, prie kurio dirbu jau dvide\u0161imt a\u0161tuonerius metus su vir\u0161 \u2013 <strong>savo pa\u010dios projekto <\/strong>&#8211;\u00a0dalimi.)<\/p>\n<p>Visai nesvarbu, k\u0105 gyvenime veikiat. Dirbat banke, pardavin\u0117jat sportba\u010dius, l\u0117ktuv\u0173 dalis, esat IT specialistai, dar\u017eelio aukl\u0117tojai, forografuojat ar darot dar k\u0105 kita. <strong>Keep your standards high.<\/strong> Dirbkit taip, kad <em>fakin<\/em> nesugalvotum\u0117t \u017emogaus, kuris gal\u0117t\u0173 geriau atlikti t\u0105 darb\u0105, kur\u012f darot, bet svarbiausia \u2013 \u0161iandien dirbkit geriau nei dirbot prie\u0161 m\u0117nes\u012f, tris ar metus. Jei jau\u010diat, kad jau slystat \u012f t\u0105 pus\u0119, kuomet pradedat u\u017esimerkt prie\u0161 galimas klaidas, i\u0161kart save stabdykit ir v\u0117l gerai per\u017ei\u016br\u0117kit visk\u0105, k\u0105 padar\u0117t, kad jokioms klaidoms vietos nelikt\u0173. <strong>Ir jei ta pozicija, kurioje esate \u0161iandien, j\u016bs\u0173 netenkina, \u017einokit, kad tik gerai darydami tai, k\u0105 darot, i\u0161moksite sau i\u0161kelti kartel\u0119 auk\u0161tai ir ateityje, galiausiai rad\u0119 svajoni\u0173 darb\u0105, jos nebemok\u0117sit nuleist.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-3411\" src=\"http:\/\/mahila.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/14581458_1159766984116941_6520040942407304134_n.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"514\" height=\"330\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mahila.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/14581458_1159766984116941_6520040942407304134_n.jpg 750w, https:\/\/mahila.lt\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/14581458_1159766984116941_6520040942407304134_n-300x193.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 514px) 100vw, 514px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Labai svarbu suprasti, kad d\u0117l daugumos ger\u0173 dalyk\u0173 reikia ilgai ir nuosekliai dirbti<\/strong>, kad retai (na, bent jau mano gyvenime) kada dalykai b\u016bna patiekiami jums ant l\u0117k\u0161tut\u0117s supjaustyti ir paruo\u0161ti valgyti. Ir baikit vaikytis skambi\u0173 etike\u010di\u0173. \u017dinau \u017emoni\u0173, kurie naktimis negali miegot d\u0117l to, kad j\u0173 vizitin\u0117je kortel\u0117je dar n\u0117ra u\u017era\u0161o \u201evadovas\u201c. <strong>Juk visada esat savo gyvenimo projekto vadovai, kuri\u0173 i\u0161 tos pozicijos nepajudins niekas.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Beje, kai gerai sekas, reikia b\u016bti labai atsargiems. \u017dinot, kod\u0117l tiek daug \u017emoni\u0173, kurie ka\u017ekada atrod\u0117 nesustabdomi, visgi tam tikru metu sustojo ir liko ten, kur ka\u017ekada atrod\u0117 auk\u0161\u010diausias j\u0173 veiklos ta\u0161kas? Jie papras\u010diausiai u\u017emigo ant laur\u0173. Jie prad\u0117jo galvoti, kad <em>jau viskas<\/em>. <em>Jau neb\u0117ra kur toliau tobul\u0117t.<\/em> Jie pasijuto beesantys geriausi savo srities specialistai, kuri\u0173 jau nebeaplenkt. Ir taip patys sau smarkiai pakenk\u0117. <strong>Kur tobul\u0117ti yra visada.<\/strong> I\u0161ties, nors ir kli\u0161inis, geras tas pasakymas \u2013 <strong>sky is the limit<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>\u017dinau, kad b\u016bna \u017emoni\u0173, kuriems gerai, kaip yra, kuriems u\u017etenka to, k\u0105 jie turi ir tikrai nuo\u0161ird\u017eiai gerbiu j\u0173 apsisprendimus bei po\u017ei\u016br\u012f. (Gal\u0173 gale, jei tobul\u0117ti ver\u010dia ne vidinis to tro\u0161kimas, o spaudimas i\u0161 aplinkos, visi\u0161kai prie\u0161taraujantis j\u016bs\u0173 pa\u010di\u0173 norams, naudos bus ma\u017eai.) \u00a0Ta\u010diau a\u0161 \u2013 ne i\u0161 t\u0173. Kol suvoksiu, kad galima pavaryt geriau, tol jausiuos gyva ir kiekvien\u0105 ryt\u0105 tur\u0117siu d\u0117l ko keltis i\u0161 lovos. Ir \u0161it\u0105 straipsn\u012f skaityt gal\u0117\u010diau dar de\u0161imt kart\u0173, ir vis tiek ras\u010diau, prie ko prikibt, bet suprantu, kad taip galima ir i\u0161prot\u0117t, tod\u0117l paleisiu j\u012f tok\u012f, koks jis man \u0161i\u0105 akimirk\u0105 atrodys geriausias.<\/p>\n<p>Tiesa, da\u017enai gird\u017eiu skundus, kad situacija nesikei\u010dia. Reikalai neger\u0117ja. <em>Oh come on<\/em>, tikrai ger\u0117ja, ta\u010diau paskend\u0119 kasdienyb\u0117s reikaluose to papras\u010diausiai nebematom. Juk ir i\u0161vaizdos poky\u010dius lengviau pastebim t\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173, kurie n\u0117ra \u0161alia m\u016bs\u0173 kasdien, o artim\u0173j\u0173 transformacijos atrodo nepastebimos, nes jie m\u016bs\u0173 akiratyje nuolatos. Apsidairykit. Pagalvokit, kaip viskas atrod\u0117 prie\u0161 metus, tris, penkerius. Jei vis dar nesimato, i\u0161sitraukit senas nuotraukas. Man vis atrodydavo, kad prie\u0161 kokius penkerius metus atrod\u017eiau geriausiai gyvenime ir mane supusi aplinka tuomet buvo dailiausia. Pasi\u017ei\u016br\u0117jau \u012f to meto nuotraukas ir supratau, kad ne veltui sakoma, jog atmintis \u2013 ne istorik\u0117, o poet\u0117, visk\u0105 nuspalvinanti gra\u017eesn\u0117mis spalvomis. Gali b\u016bti, jog atrodo, kad tada buvo geriau ir d\u0117l to, kad tada ir reik\u0117jo ma\u017eiau. <strong>Visgi geriausia yra taip, kaip yra dabar. <\/strong>O ateity bus dar geriau.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ir jei j\u016bs\u0173 gyvenime n\u0117ra geriau nei anks\u010diau, skubiai ka\u017ek\u0105 keiskit, kad taip b\u016bt\u0173. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ir niekada, niekad nepamir\u0161kit svajot. 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Tokios faz\u0117s aplanko kartais ir kitu met\u0173 laiku, bet kuo daugiau b\u016bnu viena ar keli\u0173 t\u0173 pa\u010di\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 rate, tuo labiau \u0161i b\u016bsena ve\u0161i. Viskas erzina, nenoriu su niekuo \u0161nek\u0117t, socializint\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Be kategorijos&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Be kategorijos","link":"https:\/\/mahila.lt\/index.php\/category\/be-kategorijos\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mahila.blogas.lt\/files\/2010\/08\/24152_1234523548703_1397629736_30576241_2620062_n.jpg?resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]},{"id":388,"url":"https:\/\/mahila.lt\/index.php\/2010\/07\/02\/apie-valia-ir-silpnybes\/","url_meta":{"origin":3401,"position":2},"title":"Apie vali\u0105 ir silpnybes","author":"Mahila","date":"2010 2 liepos","format":false,"excerpt":"\u017dinai, visada maniau, kad visai neturiu valios. Atsisakydavau alkoholio, cigare\u010di\u0173, nesveiko maisto trumpam, bet vistiek v\u0117l ir v\u0117l apsisukus r\u016bkydavau vien\u0105 po kitos ir kim\u0161davau kebabus. Neatsikeldavau 9 ryto ar anks\u010diau, nenueidavau miegot kaip visi normal\u016bs \u017emon\u0117s, atid\u0117liodavau visus darbus, planus, o ypa\u010d mokslo reikalus. Bet \u017einai, dabar jau atrodo\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Muzika&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Muzika","link":"https:\/\/mahila.lt\/index.php\/category\/muzika\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/mahila.blogas.lt\/files\/2010\/07\/drowning_by_casestudy28-225x300.jpg?resize=350%2C200","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]},{"id":1281,"url":"https:\/\/mahila.lt\/index.php\/2011\/01\/15\/princesei-depresija\/","url_meta":{"origin":3401,"position":3},"title":"Princesei depresija","author":"Mahila","date":"2011 15 sausio","format":false,"excerpt":"Antiek vakuumas galvoj, kad net \u017eod\u017ei\u0173 neturiu. Ant nosies milijonas deadline\u2018\u0173 ir streso. A\u0161 neturiu valios, a\u0161 tingiu, a\u0161 nieko nenoriu. Noriu guminuk\u0173, spalv\u0173, \u0161varos, r\u016bb\u0173, kvepal\u0173 ir vakar\u0117li\u0173. Esu vienas nelaimingas karaliukas savo sostelyje, aplink spalv\u0173 ir linksmybi\u0173 ma\u017eai, man ne\u012fdomu. 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