{"id":2868,"date":"2016-04-26T22:18:13","date_gmt":"2016-04-26T20:18:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mahila.blogas.lt\/?p=2865"},"modified":"2019-02-02T19:19:26","modified_gmt":"2019-02-02T17:19:26","slug":"apie-kancios-beprasmiskuma-marytes-melnikaites-ir-nuo-jusu-beganti-laika","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mahila.lt\/index.php\/2016\/04\/26\/apie-kancios-beprasmiskuma-marytes-melnikaites-ir-nuo-jusu-beganti-laika\/","title":{"rendered":"Apie kan\u010dios beprasmi\u0161kum\u0105, marytes melnikaites ir nuo j\u016bs\u0173 b\u0117gant\u012f laik\u0105"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u0160ia tema kalb\u0117jusi esu jau ne kart\u0105, bet atskiro \u012fra\u0161o jai i\u0161samiau pagvildenti dar nebuvo. Bet jau tikrai reikia. Nes per da\u017enai, nu<\/em> tikrai per da\u017enai apima mane klaikus apmaudas pabendravus su \u017emon\u0117mis ir suvokus, kiek daug gyvenime lemia ry\u017etas i\u0161dr\u012fsti keistis ir keisti netenkinan\u010dias aplinkybes ir kaip smarkiai visk\u0105 gadina i\u0161 ka\u017ekur seniai m\u016bs\u0173, lietuvi\u0173, kraujyje \u012fsi\u0161aknij\u0119s nepajudinimas pasirengimas pakent\u0117ti.<\/p>\n

Ilgus metus tiesiogiai ir pas\u0105moningai mums buvo kalama, kad kent\u0117ti \u2013 doryb\u0117. Kent\u0117ti mus mok\u0117 dar dar\u017eelyje. Neskanus maistas \u2013 pakent\u0117k, gr\u016bsk per prievart\u0105, prad\u0117s patikti. Batai spaud\u017eia? Pakent\u0117k. \u0160alta \u2013 pakent\u0117k, tuoj su\u0161ils. V\u0117liau mokykloje kent\u0117jimai t\u0119s\u0117si. Kai kuriuos dalykus atkent\u0117jom iki 10 klas\u0117s, kol buvo galima pasirinkti, k\u0105 mokytis, o ko \u2013 jau nebe. Ta\u010diau ir \u010dia vis tiek pasilikom t\u0173 kent\u0117jim\u0173. Pati labai s\u0117kmingai i\u0161siprievartavau save ir atkent\u0117jau metus matematikos pas korepetitor\u0119, nes nu reik\u0117jo b\u016btinai t\u0105 valstybin\u012f laikyt<\/strong>, atkent\u0117t. Kad man jo niekada gyvenime neprireik\u0117 ir gal geriau b\u016b\u010diau tuo metu s\u0117d\u0117jus sau ir pie\u0161us ar u\u017esi\u0117mus kokia nekankinan\u010dia veikla, turb\u016bt sakyti n\u0117 nereikia.<\/p>\n

Mano \u012fra\u0161o tikslas jums pasakyti, kad nieko, sakau jums, nieko n\u0117ra blogiau, li\u016bdniau ir skaud\u017eiau nei kent\u0117jimas, nieko nedarant ir pasyviai laukiant \u0161viesesnio rytojaus.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Prad\u0117kim nuo primityvi\u0173 m\u016bs\u0173 gyvenimo smulkmen\u0173. \u010cia kent\u0117jim\u0173 apstu. Pasteb\u0117jau, kad Lietuvoje da\u017enai, jei ka\u017ekas sul\u016b\u017eta, sugenda, \u017emon\u0117s da\u017enai rand\u0105 b\u016bd\u0105 apeiti<\/em> t\u0105 problem\u0105 ir naudoti pusiau veikiant\u012f daikt\u0105, u\u017euot \u0161iek tiek u\u017etruk\u0119 ir pasir\u016bpin\u0119, kad viskas veikt\u0173 be priekai\u0161t\u0173 (Lietuva yra pusiau veikian\u010di\u0173 elektros jungikli\u0173, laginan\u010di\u0173 komp\u0173, neatsidaran\u010di\u0173 lang\u0173, kliban\u010di\u0173 stal\u0173, i\u0161tr\u016bkusi\u0173 u\u017etrauktuk\u0173 ir nus\u0117dusi\u0173 batarki\u0173 kra\u0161tas). Tai n\u0117ra nei normalu, nei sveika, mielieji.<\/p>\n

Pra\u0161om, jums vienas labai apgail\u0117tinas pavyzdys i\u0161 mano pa\u010dios gyvenimo. Mano laptopo klaviat\u016bra \u017eiauriai nepatogi, bet ka\u017ekaip naudojau ir kent\u0117jau, nors tekst\u0173 tur\u0117davau suvesti daug. Kai \u012fsigijau normali\u0105, supratau, kad anks\u010diau i\u0161mesdavau \u012f bal\u0105 30% savo laiko taip besikankindama. Kod\u0117l kankinaus? A\u0161 ne\u017einau. Kod\u0117l taip ilgai nei\u0161dr\u012fsau i\u0161m\u0117ginti e-taxi? A\u0161 ne\u017einau. Kod\u0117l tik prie\u0161 kelis m\u0117nesis pam\u0117ginau naudotis laisv\u0173 rank\u0173 \u012franga? Neklauskit, ne\u017einau. Nors, nu<\/em> nes durna turb\u016bt<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Jeigu j\u016bs \u017einote, kad muzika kur kas geriau skamb\u0117t\u0173 per kolon\u0117les, bet j\u0173 nenusiperkat ir klausot apgail\u0117tino vargo i\u0161 kompiuterio, atid\u0117liodami j\u0173 \u012fsigijim\u0105, tai nu<\/em> patys kalti. Jeigu jums ka\u017ek\u0105 skauda, bet j\u016bs su tuo nesitvarkot, tai jums v\u0117liau skaud\u0117s tik dar labiau.<\/p>\n

Kai man buvo 23 m. a\u0161 i\u0161va\u017eiavau \u012f Kanad\u0105, tik\u0117jausi, kad man ten patiks labiau nei patiko, o nepatiko visai. Kai supratau, kad man negerai, i\u0161 karto puoliau gelb\u0117t save. Nes kai tu kenti, tu vysti, tu gesti, tu nebesi tu, tas geriausias tu, kuris gali b\u016bti.<\/strong> Vienintelis to kent\u0117jimo g\u0117ris yra nebent tas, kad kai s\u0117di apgail\u0117tinoj pad\u0117ty, \u0161ikn\u0105 sau atsispardyti ir priimti sprendimus tenka ir pavyksta geriau nei bet kada.<\/p>\n

Jei j\u016bs esat nelaimingi savo darbe, eikit i\u0161 jo. Eikit \u0161iandien. Ne rytoj, ne poryt, dabar. Jei \u010dia pab\u016bsite dar ilgiau, \u012f ger\u0105 nepasikeis niekas. Tik i\u0161mesit lauk laik\u0105, kur\u012f gal\u0117tum\u0117t praleisti darydami ne tai, ko neken\u010diate<\/em>. Kai gr\u012f\u017eau i\u0161 Kanados, nutariau, kad b\u016bt\u0173 \u012fdomu pakeisti veiklos srit\u012f ir ka\u017ekaip \u0117miau ir \u012fsidarbinau vienoj auksu \u017eiban\u010dioj, kaip v\u0117liau paai\u0161k\u0117jo, \u0161ara\u0161kino kontoroj. Fancy<\/em> ofisas, fancy<\/em> reikaliukai, o i\u0161 ties\u0173 \u2013 tikra a\u0161ar\u0173 pakaln\u0117, priglaudusi b\u016brel\u012f mergai\u010di\u0173, kurios akivaizd\u017eiai buvo puikiai i\u0161dresiruotos pakent\u0117ti<\/em>. B\u0117gti i\u0161 ten a\u0161 nepuoliau, m\u0117ginau reikal\u0105 i\u0161narplioti ir i\u0161spr\u0119sti, ta\u010diau po vis\u0173 mano m\u0117ginim\u0173 supratau, kad nieko nebus ir i\u0161\u0117jau. \u017dmon\u0117s ofisiuke buvo \u0161okiruoti, \u201ekaip gi \u010dia galima mesti darb\u0105?\u201c Fak j\u016b, tu gali mesti \u0161imt\u0105 darb\u0173, kol rasi t\u0105, kuriame viskas bus gerai.<\/strong> Negali b\u016bt viskas gerai? Gali<\/strong>. N\u0117ra toki\u0173 darb\u0173, kur jus myl\u0117s, vertins, girs, o kaip paskatinim\u0105 dovanos keliones \u012f \u0161iltus kra\u0161tus? Yra.<\/strong> Tie ofisiukai, tos a\u0161ar\u0173 pakaln\u0117s klesti b\u016btent vis\u0173 ken\u010dian\u010di\u0173 ir nedejuojan\u010di\u0173 mary\u010di\u0173 melnikai\u010di\u0173 prakaitu varomi. O toki\u0173 ofisiuk\u0173 Lietuvoj pilna, nes pilna linkusi\u0173j\u0173 pakent\u0117ti.<\/p>\n

Jei suvokiate, kad esate santykiuose (nesvarbu, kalbam apie meiles, ar elementariausius draug\u0173 santykius), kurie j\u016bs\u0173 ned\u017eiugina, nestumia \u012f priek\u012f ir nepraturtina, b\u0117kit i\u0161 j\u0173. Jei j\u016bs nesate tikri, ar jums juose gerai, labai didel\u0117 tikimyb\u0117, kad gerai n\u0117ra. Nesuklyskit, a\u0161 i\u0161 t\u0173, kurie suply\u0161usius drabu\u017eius siuva, nepuola i\u0161mesti, ta\u010diau jei lop\u0173 pataisyti pad\u0117t\u012f nebeu\u017etenka, metas su tai suply\u0161usiais d\u017einsais atsisveikint, kad ir kokie jie faini buvo, kai pirkot<\/strong>. (Jei \u017emogus antiek<\/strong> debilas, kad net nesvarsto galimyb\u0117s eiti su jumis \u012f kompromis\u0105, nu<\/em> tai ar yra kokia prasm\u0117 lopyt ten tuos skyl\u0117tus d\u017einsus? Eina jie nachuj tie d\u017einsai).<\/p>\n

(Tumbleryje yra milijonas jautri\u0173 paveiksliuk\u0173 apie tai, kad svajones pildyt reikia tu\u010dtuojau, o savo mylimiems meil\u0119 i\u0161pa\u017eint nedelsiant. Tie paveiksliukai sald\u016bs iki apsiv\u0117mimo, bet, dievul\u0117liau, jie nemeluoja.)<\/p>\n

\u017dinot, visi tokie b\u0117gimai oi tikrai n\u0117ra lengvi. Jie kaip operacijos. Tu \u017einai, kad tau skaud\u0117s, \u017einai, kad bus nema\u017eai bardako, bet tu leidiesi pjaustomas, nes \u017einai<\/strong>, kad po to tau bus geriau.<\/p>\n

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